{"id":379,"date":"2011-06-17T15:24:44","date_gmt":"2011-06-17T15:24:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cttbchinese.org\/fayubinfen\/?p=379"},"modified":"2023-08-24T02:24:22","modified_gmt":"2023-08-24T09:24:22","slug":"%e5%b0%8f%e5%9f%8e%e7%9a%84%e7%be%8e","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.cttbchinese.org\/fayubinfen\/?p=379","title":{"rendered":"\u5c0f\u57ce\u7684\u7f8e"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u738b\u6b23\u5e73\u8b1b\u65bc2010\u5e7410\u67088\u65e5\u661f\u671f\u4e94\u665a \u842c\u4f5b\u57ce\u5927\u6bbf \u00a0A talk given by Sharon Wang on October 8, 2010<\/p>\n

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Buddha, Bodhisattva, Venerable Mater, Dharma Mater, all good knowing advisers, teacher and students. My name is Sharon Wang. I am in 11 th grade from Developing Virtues Girl’s School. Amitabha!<\/p>\n

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If we say there are eighty years for one’s life span, how many satisfying incidents can happen during these eight years? In our daily life, people always complain how their lives are plain, boring and dissatisfying; even though they have a high pay job and an adoring family, people still feel empty. My attitude toward life was as pessimistic as those people before I came to CTTB.<\/p>\n

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I always felt as if my life was never in my favor. I have a father who is handicapped, a mother who is annoyed by her own family, a brother who procrastinates (which is not a really something to be proud) and a sister who always insults me whenever she sees me. Besides my family, I was a yes- man girl. My grades were average in class. I did not have any attractive appearance or character. I admired those girls who are attractive and were surrounded by groups of people. Then I reflect myself: it was so depressing that I am not special at all. I never had enough confidence because I usually saw bad points in my characters. Day after day, I left no smile on my face. After I came to CTTB, my attitude toward life changed gradually.<\/p>\n

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The first time I stepped into the gate of CTTB was in the summer of 2007. At that moment, my head popped out a word unconsciously- primitive. CTTB seemed so simple and boring compared to the ostentatiously prosperous Taipei. Of course, I immediately made an assumption of the people here- a group of Buddhist hicks. However, the days I spent in CTTB changed my life to a brighter perspective; it aroused my dream, and built up my specialty.<\/p>\n

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The school in CTTB does not look like a school on the appearance: a two- floor building with some ivy crows on the wall; the wooden windows that made weird music when we try really hard to open it. This building is more like a discarded building rather than a school. In this school, there are approximately a hundred students only. For sure everyone knows each other really well. Among all the teachers, most of them are cultivators. During the school time, students cannot go on the internet, go out without permission, and the have a relationship with opposite gender.\u00a0 When the school just started, I was wondering how would I survive in this kind of environment for one year?<\/p>\n

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In the beginning, I lacked confidence in myself.\u00a0 However, after I had the interaction with the girls in the school, I started feeling that I have a really fortunate life. In the school, some the girls have a single family, but they never complain about it because they think that it is happiness. There was a girl, she is not as pretty as a movie star, but her confidence makes her appearance just like one of the people in Hollywood. After the few months in the school, I discovered my values as Sharon Wang; I am not a Yes- Man- Girl. I like to help people; I don’t like to reject others because I feel guilty for not helping. I live in a more confident and happier\u00a0 way than before. I don’t feel embarrassed about my family anymore. Even though my dad is a handicapped, he works really hard to give me a better education in America; my mother is a really good mother because we are always the first priority in her heart; even though my brother procrastinates all the time, but he is a considerate person who does his duty as a brother very well; I know I do not get along with my sister, but she taught a really important lesson in my life, which is \u201c Do unto others as others unto you.\u201d I feel my life is no longer dissatisfying, instead, I have the brightest life compared to others.<\/p>\n

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Gradually, I discovered the beauty of CTTB. During these three years, I learned the values and the calmness which I have never known before. Through meditation and Buddhist classes, I learned that I should solve a problem in a more rational point of view, and how to self control and understand our desires through our most original conscious.\u00a0 Also, I learned how to respect others and all living things, because this is the respect toward one’s self. When I learned that we have desires because we have false thinking, I know I should not expect to much on myself and other in any difficulties. In the CTTB, my dream of being a volunteer doctor in third world country was supported. This is the first time I realize that I did not dream about an impossible mission. It is the most meaningful decision I have made in my life. In school, the cultivating teachers built up my confidence and hope by letting me know I am special. I can be the brightest star in the crowd. My life will be full of meanings because everyone is special, therefore, so am I.<\/p>\n

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Dharma Master Sheng Yan once has said, \u201c if the mountain does not turn, the road will turn\uff1bif the road does not turn, the person will turn\uff1bif the person does not turn\uff0cthe mind will turn\u201d . As lone as we have the right attitude toward our life; there is no such thing as dissatisfaction.\u00a0 Everything is satisfaction.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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