{"id":7781,"date":"2015-01-04T15:48:58","date_gmt":"2015-01-04T23:48:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cttbchinese.org\/fayubinfen\/?p=7781"},"modified":"2023-08-24T04:47:22","modified_gmt":"2023-08-24T11:47:22","slug":"%e5%b9%bc%e5%90%be%e5%b9%bc%e4%bb%a5%e5%8f%8a%e4%ba%ba%e4%b9%8b%e5%b9%bc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.cttbchinese.org\/fayubinfen\/?p=7781","title":{"rendered":"\u5e7c\u543e\u5e7c\u4ee5\u53ca\u4eba\u4e4b\u5e7c"},"content":{"rendered":"

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All Buddha, Bodhisattva, Venerable Master, all Dharma Masters, and all good wise advisors, Amitabha!\u00a0 It is Meilin\u2019s turn to tie Dharma affinity with assembly. If I said something not according to Dharma, please kindly correct me.<\/p>\n

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Today, I would like to share some experiences and thoughts from my second year teaching at BoysSchool.\u00a0 I teach 2nd<\/sup> and third grade Chinese atBoysSchool.\u00a0 This year when I came back fromTaiwan, my students were very happy to see me; they rushed to me and gave me a big hug.\u00a0 I was happy but also worry, and wondering how long they will behave, and next, how I am going to teach them Chinese.<\/p>\n

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Except teaching them by text book, I teach them to sing Chinese songs to make them have more interests to learn Chinese.\u00a0 I choose a song and its title is \u201cMom\u2019s eyes\u201d.\u00a0 Since Mother\u2019s Day was approaching, I want them to learn and sing this song to their mothers.\u00a0 At first, my students were eager to learn.\u00a0 But, as soon as I play the song, they all give me an expression that they are going to pass out.\u00a0 One of them even lay down on floor.\u00a0 I feel so confused.\u00a0 I think the lyrics are simple and the melody is good.\u00a0 What is wrong with the song?\u00a0 I difficultly taught them to sing this song once.\u00a0 After the class, one of my students asked me \u201cTeacher!\u00a0 What we are going to learn tomorrow?\u201d\u00a0 I replied \u201cI don\u2019t know yet, you guys don\u2019t like to sing the song\u201d.\u00a0 And, he said \u201cTeacher!\u00a0 I think the song is \u201cOK\u201d!\u00a0 But, it is for girls.\u201d\u00a0 Ah! Ha! I finally got it!\u00a0 The song is too soft to them.\u00a0 They want to learn songs with quick pace.\u00a0 If I teach them Jackie Chen\u2019s songs, they are going to like it.\u00a0 But, I know none of Jackie Chen\u2019s songs.\u00a0 Furthermore, they think they are big boys now.\u00a0 They feel embarrassed to sing a soft song to their mothers.\u00a0 I think they are just eight years old, and they do not want to sing a children\u2019s song to their mothers, but in the future, they might sing a love song to their girl friends in their twenties.\u00a0 I decided to force them to learn this song no matter what.<\/p>\n

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Later on, I found out they like the song and sing it well.\u00a0 I was almost fooled by them!\u00a0 Especially, one of my students whose parents just got divorced he lives with his father.\u00a0 Though, his father takes good care of him, he still miss his mom very much.\u00a0 He always asks me to let him sing the song, and he is the best singer.\u00a0 He makes me feel ache in my heart.\u00a0 He said he cannot sing this song to his mom on the Mother\u2019s day.\u00a0 I told him that he can sing this song to his dad, because his dad takes care of him like his mother.\u00a0 He just needs to change the word of \u201cMom\u201d to \u201cDad\u201d in the song.\u00a0 He happily accepted my suggestion and become more delightful.\u00a0 This student studies hard and very considerate, but sometimes in bad mood and does not want to learn anything.\u00a0 I did not know why until later on his core teacher told me he constantly has this kind of problems after his parents got divorced.\u00a0 I feel sorry for him that at this young age, he already needs to deal this kind of emotion problem.\u00a0 A lots of children\u2019s behavioral problems come from families.\u00a0 The family structure of modern day becomes complicated.\u00a0 There are lots of single families or parents who got divorced and re-married again.\u00a0 Children have to face complicated relationships.\u00a0 No wonder Venerable Master said \u201cthere are no problem children, only problem parents\u201d.\u00a0 Being a teacher, what I can do is caring and encouraging him.<\/p>\n

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The lyrics of this song are:\u201dIn the beautiful, beautiful sky, here comes out the bright little stars, it looks like my mom\u2019s kind and lovely eyes.\u201d\u00a0 When I was teaching my students this song, suddenly, the verse in the Universal Door Chapter<\/em> e \u201cComplete with all merit and virtue, His kind eyes watching living beings,\u201d jumps out of my mine. I finally totally understand that mother is the transformation body of Gwan Shi Yin Bodhisattva.\u00a0 Mother has thousands eyes and thousands hands like Gwan Shi Yin Bodhisattva.\u00a0 It also answers my question I always have, when last year I went back to take care of my mom.\u00a0 I didn\u2019t understand how come my mom can take care of us- six children.\u00a0 And, now, she got sick.\u00a0 We, four siblings, take care of her one person, but feel so difficult and tired. The reason is mother has thousands hands and thousand eyes. \u00a0We, four siblings, just got eight hands and eight eyes.\u00a0 But, the most important is mother always has no self<\/em>.\u00a0 Even she got sick; she still wants to take care of us.\u00a0 Once, I was busy cleaning a room and forgot it already passed time for cooking.\u00a0 At that time, my mom still could get out of bed by herself.\u00a0 She walked to kitchen with her stick and wanted to cook.\u00a0 I found out and asked her if she is hungry.\u00a0 She answered me:\u201d I am not hungry, but it is time for your brother to come home and have dinner\u201d And, there was time, before Chinese New Year, I was busy at kitchen, and she came out of her room and wanted to help me, because before we always cooked together.\u00a0 After I guarantied her that I will be fine and insisted she needs to rest, she finally went back to her room. But, when we take care of her, we cannot be no self<\/em>, and always insist our own point of view.<\/p>\n

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I did not understand how blessed I was, that I had my mother to care and remind me.\u00a0 In the morning, when I get up, my mom always wants me to put on my jacket; my answer always is \u201cI am not cold!\u201d When I want to take bus, she always reminds me if I have changes.\u00a0 When I want to take bus to a place I have never been to, she always gives me detail directions, even calls my cell phone to make sure I arrive and did not get lost. To all these caring, I always grumbled how come my mom treats me like a child!\u00a0 At that time, \u201carrogance<\/em>\u201d blocked my view to let me see how I was a blessed big child! Until my mom got sick, in the morning, it becomes my turn to tell her put on jacket, and she always answered me \u201cI am not cold!\u201d Her memory becomes poor.\u00a0 In order to make sure she remembers important things, I told her the day before yesterday, and yesterday, and one more time in today, and even asked her again if she remember.\u00a0 Out of my surprise, she answered me with a tone like a teenager, and said\u201dOK! OK! I got it! You are so nagging!\u201d Suddenly, I realized we already swapped our roles.\u00a0 Now, it is my turn to take care of her, and I find out I am more nagging than her.<\/p>\n

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I have prepared a card for my students, with Chinese words say \u201cMom and dad, thank you!\u201d these words I have taught my students.\u00a0 I wanted my students bring home and say to their parents in Chinese.\u00a0 But, from the process of caring my mom, I realized that showing children by what you do is better than teaching them by what you say.\u00a0 I tested my niece by asking her in the future if her mom got sick, she will take care of her or not.\u00a0 She answered me with a firm tone and says \u201cYes!\u201d\u00a0 I continued asking her how she will take care of her mom.\u00a0 What my niece said is exactly how my sisters take care of my mom right now.<\/p>\n

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When we push out my mom to take a walk with wheel chair, our neighbors always said:\u201d It is good that your mom has you to take care of her!\u201d\u00a0 Later on, I realize that actually it is us who are blessed that we still have mom to take care of.\u00a0 At that time, my mom still can walk by herself.\u00a0 Accompanying her to take a walk becomes a beautiful memory.\u00a0 When I went to Buddha Roots Farm, Dharma Master Sure asked us a question that what is the best gift you ever received.\u00a0 I think a while and said I still have mom I can take care of is the best gift I received.\u00a0 Though, we cannot do lots of things together anymore. We even cannot have conversation over the phone.<\/p>\n

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This semester I teach second grade Chinese. My students are very cute but naughty.\u00a0 One of them is easy to get emotional if he has few wrong answers in his homework, and one is like to show off.\u00a0 But, it is better for you not to laugh; otherwise, he will show off harder and disturb your class and make you unable to teach. It is not easy to teach them Chinese; except they have different abilities, one of the reasons is they love to talk, and they feel Chinese is difficult.\u00a0 So, to teach them, you need to have patience, methods, and a lot of energies.\u00a0 My third grade students love to write Chinese, and write very well.\u00a0 But, my second grades, at first, do not like to write.\u00a0 I think it is related to age.\u00a0 One of my students always starts crying \u201cIt is hard! It is so hard!\u201d, every time when I ask him to practice writing.\u00a0 It reminds me that one of my nephews was exactly like him, and my mom just held his hand and taught him to write one stroke by one stroke.\u00a0 I learned from my mom, and hold my students hands and teach them to write one stroke by one stroke. Really, they become more willing to write. Besides, I use different colors to write on the board to show them the order of stroke.\u00a0 They who are the new generation like best is to practice the order of stroke on my IPAD, and even fight who will be the first. So, I insist they need to write on practicing book one line, then, I will let them practice on my IPAD.\u00a0 I use these methods to make these new generation kids who don\u2019t like to write to write. Especially, when they ask me \u201cTeacher! Can you show us how to write \u201cBuddha\u201d in Chinese?\u00a0 I am so happy!\u201d<\/p>\n

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Before the school started, I was thinking how to improve my teaching.\u00a0 Since \u201cTeach lax, lazy teacher\u201d, I decide to give them more home works and quiz.\u00a0 Besides, I need to be stricter.\u00a0 But, two weeks later, I found out they are not afraid of me at all.\u00a0 One of my students even told me \u201cNo!\u201d when I want to give him time out.\u00a0 Though, punishing children is the last thing I want to do, in order to correct their behaviors, I cannot but do it.\u00a0 But, I give rewards too.\u00a0 I give them stickers, pencils, and erasers as rewards. I also write some encouraging words on their home works, such as \u201cperfect\u201d, \u201cexcellent\u201d, and \u201cWow\u201d on their home works and give them a smiling face sticker.\u00a0 Furthermore, I design and make some Chinese games.\u00a0 Through games, they have deeper impression about Chinese letters, and sometimes the result of teaching is better. But, the short coming of the game is they will become very exciting; sometimes, it will become out of control.\u00a0 I have to spend a lot of energy to control the order of the class. There was once that I have not let them play games for a long time.\u00a0 That day they studied hard; in order to reward them, I let them play my Chinese monopoly.\u00a0 But, my class became like an out of control circus. There was one crawling on the floor, and there was one screaming, and there were two chasing each other.\u00a0 I could not but scolded my student at the end of the class.\u00a0 Maybe I did not scold them loudly enough.\u00a0 Their core teacher came in and scolded them like a lion roar for me.\u00a0 I felt so depressed that day after the class, and I wanted to loudly cry \u201cTeaching you naughty boys Chinese is so hard! It is so hard!\u201d<\/p>\n

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My students sometimes are very naughty and know how to bully teacher.\u00a0 When I ask them to write, they ask me to sharpen pencils for them.\u00a0 At first, I respond to their requests, like Gwan Shi Yin Bodhisattva.\u00a0 Later on, I found out they search through their drawers to find more pencils to let me sharpen.\u00a0 One student even handed over a whole box of pencils to me, and looked at me with his big eyes.\u00a0 I said I only sharpen one pencil for each student. They have another ability that is they can turn a teacher into a tiger. Recently, one day, I talked with my husband on the phone.\u00a0 He is an experienced teacher.\u00a0 He asked me about my students.\u00a0 I said: \u201cDon\u2019t mention it!\u00a0 Today, I just scold them loudly!\u201d\u00a0 My husband laughed and laughed happily and could not stop, and he said \u201cWow! Tiger finally shows her power!\u00a0 Did your students being scared and hide up?\u201d I said\u201dNo! Maybe I did not scold loudly enough, but, they wrote by themselves and the whole classroom was so quiet!\u201d\u00a0 He said \u201cYou get to be strict, more serious but not too serious\u201d.\u00a0 Finally, I get it!\u00a0 Sometimes, I need to manifest in the body of Vajra-wielding Spirit to teach my students. Not only teaching them Chinese, but also teaching them what is right and what is wrong.\u00a0 They have a very good core teacher who always teaches them the principle of being a good person by chance, and my students listen and keep nodding their heads. I found out my students know better than what I think, and it is me who spoil them.<\/p>\n

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Once, one of my students asked me how to say \u201chappy\u201d in Chinese.\u00a0 Then, I taught them \u201chappy\u201d this word and they learned quickly. It is really not easy to teach them Chinese. There is time when they are very naughty; or you teach them very hard, but they still look puzzling at you.\u00a0 It makes you feel you almost want to give up.\u00a0 But, I could not give up and have to find another way to teach them on the next day. When my students learn sincerely, eagerly and happily, and their bright eyes showing on their happy faces is the strength which supports me to keep teaching.<\/p>\n

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Though I have no my own child to teach; now I teach some very cute boys at Boys School.\u00a0 Though, I cannot go home to cook for my mom, but on the Honoring Elders Day, I washed vegetables for many elders.\u00a0 I think the purpose of Venerable Master set up Cherishing Youth Day and Honoring Elders Day is that he wants us “Treats one’s own elders so should one treat other elders. Just as one treats one’s own children as one would treat other’s children.”\u00a0 He wants us to learn kindness and compassion from Gwan Shi Yin Bodhisattva. Kindness bestows happiness; compassion relieves beings of suffering.\u00a0 I like to use the Chapter of Great Harmony<\/em> by Confucius to end my talk.<\/p>\n

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THE CHAPTER OF GREAT HARMONY(TA TUNG )<\/p>\n

\uff5eBY CONFUCIUS\uff5e<\/p>\n

“When the Great Principle prevails, the world is a Commonwealth in which leaders are selected according to their wisdom and ability. Honesty and trust are promoted and good neighborliness cultivated. \u00a0All people respect and love their own parents and children, as well as the parents and children of others.\u00a0 The aged are cared for until death; adults are employed in jobs that make full use of their abilities; and children are nourished, educated, and fostered.\u00a0 Widows and widowers, orphans and the old without children, the disabled and the diseased are all well taken care of.\u00a0 Every man and woman has an appropriate role to play in society and in the family.\u00a0 They hate to see resources lying idle or cast away, yet they do not necessarily keep them for themselves.\u00a0 They hate not to make use of their abilities, yet they do not necessarily work for their own self-interest.\u00a0 Thus, intrigues and conspiracies do not arise, and thievery and robbery do not occur; therefore doors need never be locked.\u00a0 This is the ideal world \u2013 a perfect world of equality, fraternity, harmony, welfare, and justice.\u00a0 This is called the Great Harmony (TA TUNG).”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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